Peter Kowalke

Peter is founder of Kowalke Coaching. He also is founding director of the Philia Mission, a small charitable organization. Contact Peter.

Why Your Timeout Fails During a Fight

By on Apr 30, 2017

Add a restart time for when you lose your cool and must take a break.

That Feeling of Connection

By on Apr 11, 2017

How to balance our need for love with our need for safety.

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Relationship Jiu-Jitsu

By on Apr 06, 2017

How to duck under the anger when your partner is mad.

How to Rekindle the Spark in Your Relationship

By on Mar 28, 2017

Recovering that loving feeling starts with greater acceptance.

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How to Curb Those Money Fights

By on Mar 16, 2017

Learn how you can stop fighting about money by better understanding your partner's financial priorities.

Meeting Your Needs as Gift

By on Mar 08, 2017

Express your needs as a wish, not a complaint.

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Projecting Our Fears: How We Help Our Partner Fail Us

By on Feb 28, 2017

Our fears usually play a role in our partner's bad behavior.

How to Get on the Same Team During a Fight

By on Feb 21, 2017

What to do when you and your partner aren't hearing each other.

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5 Tips for a Great Valentine’s Day

By on Feb 14, 2017

Five tips for a great date on Valentine's Day.

Where We Get Positive Thinking Wrong

By on Feb 06, 2017

Positive thinking is just the start. You also need positive action.