Peter Kowalke

Peter is founder of Kowalke Coaching. He also is founding director of the Philia Mission, a small charitable organization. Contact Peter.

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Where We Get Positive Thinking Wrong

By on Feb 15, 2023

Positive thinking is just the start. You also need positive action.

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How We Help Our Partner Fail Us

By on Jan 15, 2023

Our fears often play a role in our partner's bad behavior.

Getting on the Same Team During a Fight

By on Dec 15, 2022

What to do when you and your partner aren't hearing each other.

Understanding Jealousy — and How to Fix It

By on Nov 30, 2022

We think we understand jealousy, but it often is a misunderstood signal.

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How to Smile More and Fight Less When You Move in with Your Partner

By on Aug 17, 2022

How to smile more when moving in with your partner.

5 Essential Skills for a Lasting Relationship

By on Jan 16, 2020

What You Need for that Lasting Relationship

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The Real Reason You’re Still Single (and How to Break the Cycle!)

By on Jan 06, 2020

What’s holding you back is that nothing actually is changing. Here's how to change that.

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Holiday Advice from a Relationship Coach

By on Dec 24, 2019

Happy holidays from China...and some advice from a monk.

Is Career Getting in the Way of Your Relationship?

By on Oct 20, 2019

Is your life too busy for dating? Are you with someone who works all the time? Here's what you need to ask.

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Why Knowing Your Partner’s Ex is Good for Your Relationship

By on Jul 21, 2019

We don't like hearing about our partner's pervious love life. But hearing about it is critical for a strong relationship. Here's how to do it.