The heart of Kowalke Coaching is our individualized relationship coaching. We take good relationships, and we make them better through a clear understanding of what it takes to make relationships great.
We start with theory and getting to know you and your relationship, then we work with you and your partner on developing customized strategies that put good relationship principles into practice. Understanding the dynamics of good relationships is relatively easy—making lasting changes that lead to those extraordinary relationships is what our coaching is all about.
A coaching program lasts a year, and after that you can retain us for periodic relationship guidance or additional goals. As with a top athlete, the quality of your relationship is only limited by your commitment to excellence; we can help take your relationship as far as you and your partner are committed to taking it.
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In the Discovery phase, we build a deep understanding of each other and assess your current relationship capabilities. You learn the fundamentals of quantum relationships and understand our approach. We learn about you and your partner. Together, we also develop our relationship goals and set clear metrics for tracking progress.
The first phase helps us assess your current situation and needs, and it lays the foundation of understanding and trust for the coaching relationship. We discover if coaching is right for you, and we develop an individualized plan for success.
This first phase lasts roughly 3 months and you can cancel at any time for a full refund on the remaining portion of the program.[/toggle]
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The real growth begins in the Training phase. We work closely with you and your partner on individualized relationship exercises that develops the right habits and mindset. We constantly assess and periodically adjust the exercises according to the growth and needs of your particular relationship.
The second phase is where we take the knowledge of you and your partner and use it for relationship growth. We evolve and correct limiting relationship beliefs, and we build new habits that support a truly amazing relationship. Periodically we uncover challenges in the relationship and resolve them as we move through the training program.[/toggle]
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With the Integration phase, we expand the coaching to include spot work with other coaches who can lend a slightly different perspective on some of the remaining blockages in your relationship. Our relationship exercises continue, but more of the work is done automatically and independently as you gain in relationship strength and insight.
In the third phase we refine your relationship with insight from additional members of the Kowalke Coaching family. We also start moving the center of the work to you and your partner so the training gains are lasting.[/toggle]
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In the Maintenance phase, active relationship work slows down but we still review periodically to ensure that the gains are lasting and any little blockages in the relationship are cleared. Most of the work during this phase is self-directed, but we’re only a call away when you need help.
The Maintenance phase ensures that your relationship will remain extraordinary and continue to grow even after program completion. You have already developed a deeper understanding of your relationship by this point, and you’ve built healthy new habits. This phase makes sure the goals have been reached by pulling back from the coaching while still monitoring and remaining accessible for hidden challenges.[/toggle]